These are my pride and joy, my daughter in love Nicolette who is a Physicians Assistant in California, and is married to my oldest son Jeremy on the left currently serving in Iraq as a 1st. Lt. in the Marines, and my youngest son Nicholas on the right is a senior at Appalachian State University, Boone, North Carolina. As many of you are I too am proud of my children and all they have accomplished in their short lives. They are much better than I at handling difficulty and are good to their mother. I have the privilege of spending about 6 weeks in California beginning December 2 until January 6 with Nicolette for Christmas and New Year's. Nicholas will be flying out for about 15 days for Christmas. We have made reservations to spend the holiday in Las Vegas, which will be very different for us. Since I lost my husband to cancer earlier this year I am finding that it is hard to do things or get through the "Firsts" and Christmas would just be pitiful here with just Nicholas and myself. So, a new normal will take place this year and hopefully next year we can all celebrate the holidays here at home together and begin to change our traditions to be something we will all cherish and remember without having the pain of loss.Blessings!